In the fall of 1959 I attended Valley College. This experience lasted only a year and a half due to a tonsillectomy. I left school sans tonsils, but with a fiancĂ©, Fred. I then worked for a title insurance company, and we were married in February 1962. We moved to San Diego where Fred was working and daughter Kathleen was born the following December. In January 1963 we moved to Burbank when Fred began working for Lockheed. In June of that year he was transferred to the U. S. Navy base at Moffett Field south of San Francisco. In December it was on to Jacksonville, Florida for a year then back home to Sherman Oaks for daughter Molly’s birth in January 1965. When she was two weeks old, Fred received more traveling papers, this time to South East Asia. I was a single mom for 8 months until he returned home.
We bought our first home in late 1965 in Granada Hills. Our daughter Michelle was born in April 1966, and we made a vow to stay put. Our son Andy was born in May 1969 and I was happy to be a stay-at-home mom. During this time I belonged to a guild that supported Children’s Hospital of Los Angeles. Fred and I were blessed with active, healthy children and I wanted to contribute by helping others.
In June of 1977 Lockheed had us “on the road again” and this time to Montreal, Canada for three years. So much for a vow to stay put. ”Itchy feet” struck again and in 1980 we were transferred to Derbyshire, England for a two year stay. During our stay we were able to travel extensively in Europe. Our experiences in both Canada and England were very rewarding for the six of us.
We returned home to live in Ventura, CA with interesting accents and a desire to embrace all things American.
With our daughters in various colleges and our son preparing for the same, I decided to back-up my enthusiasm for higher education by enrolling in UCSB, graduating in 1989 with a BA in English. (Ironic it has taken me this long to write this Blog!)
I helped Fred with a book he was writing about his Great-Great Grandfather’s regiment during the Civil War. We were thrilled when “Yates Phalanx” was published in 1994.
Fred took early retirement from Lockheed in 1995 after 33 years. After a short period of being “at leisure” he went to work for a small aerospace company in Fullerton.
By this time the drive from Ventura was too much and we moved to Glendale. In 2003 we bought a townhouse in Monrovia where we again “vowed to stay put!”
We are blessed with happily married children with wonderful spouses and 8 terrific grandchildren. I guess our daughters caught our “itchy” feet and it has given us more travel time to Seattle, WA, Holland, MI and Richmond, VA. Our son decided to stay put and he and his family live in La Canada Flintridge.
Since 1998 I am back in the volunteering mode. This time with a guild that supports the USC University Hospital and the Keck School of Medicine. We raise funds for scholarships for graduating medical students. We also enjoy tailgating at USC football games (especially the past six years!)
It was wonderful to see my classmates at the Reunion and to hear about their lives and families. The PHS experience taught me to live my life to the fullest and to strive to be whatever I wanted to be.
Fred and I have watched the DVD several times and it is fabulous! It evoked many wonderful memories…and the music was great. Thank you, Devi. And thank you to the Reunion Committee for a wonderful weekend in March.
Fondly,
Patsy
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